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I write Young Adult and Middle Grade fiction. I'm a married mom of four, and live in the beautiful Okanagan Valley, famous for beaches and vineyards. I'm fond of Lindt's sea salt dark chocolate and hiking in good weather. My Young Adult rom/com time-travel CLOCKWISE series and contemporary/otherworldly Middle Grade IT'S A LITTLE HAYWIRE are now available on Amazon.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Some People Have Quite the LIfe

If you been reading Kristen Lamb's blog lately, you'll know how she believes that to be a successful blogger is to blog about things other than just writing.

She gave the example of one romance writer who also liked cooking and making wine, and that when she started writing about those things, her following increased by quite a bit. Why? Because there are more people out there interested in wine and food and writing than who are just interested in writing.

Basically, blog about all your passions, not just one.

Which is fine if you have a lot of passions. I like to eat good food and drink good wine, but I hate cooking and I'm not interested in the finer points of how or where wine is made. These are not things I could blog about.

It got me to thinking: what are my other passions? And even more importantly, should I blog about them?

I'll have to get back to you on that.

But I do have an interesting reflection to share with you. This is something that happened while I was in Romania, a country I am passionate about, on the third floor of the apartment building my DH and I were staying in.

In the shared hallway, an older man was entering a shared bathroom. (Thankfully we had our own bathroom.) He was old, old, like white hair, rail thin, bent over old.

I couldn't stop thinking about him, what his life must have been like. Chances are good that he's never been out of Romania. Permissible travel for citizens out of Romania is a relatively new thing.

I calculated that if the man was in his late eighties or nineties, he must have been around fifteen years old when the second World War broke out. Brasov at the turn of the century and the first few decades into it was an affluent city. It was actually called Kronstadt, which is German for Crown City. He'd  have childhood and early teen memories of  "the good life".

The apartment building we stayed in would have been a single family home at that time.

Then the war broke out, and all hell broke loose all over Europe. This man would've been recruited to fight at some point, and for sure by the last year or so.

After that, fifty years of communism under the rule of a cruel and ruthless dictator,
Nicolae Ceausescu.  One man destroyed an entire generation of children to aids, with his egotistical plans to fortify "Ceausescu's Children" with blood transfusions.

I went to an orphanage in 1997. I saw the children rocking in lead painted iron beds, six, eight or more to a stuffy, smelly room.

Finally, freedom (sort of) in 1989, after the people of Romania revolted and shot the dictator and his wife to death. Was this man part of that revolution?

It took many years for Romania to recover from the ravages of Communism and dictatorship, and the corruption that lasted beyond the fall of the iron curtain.

But now, there are signs of economic recovery. The downtown core of Brasov looks good, almost as good as the early years. While off the main road the former glory still exists, its just chipped and faded. But there's progress.

I just hope this man is healthy enough to get out and enjoy the restoration of his city. I wonder if he sits on the bench in the park across the street and remembers his life. Or maybe he wants to forget.

So what about you?  What are your passions? Are they something you could blog about?

15 comments:

  1. As much as I like to write, the blogs that I read regularly only talk about writing sometimes. It's the blogs that talk about other things as well that I'll read whenever the author posts. And I especially love the blogs where the author has "a voice."

    BTW, I love the photo of the house and your thoughts about the old man.

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  2. Sounds like that man would make a wonderful seed idea for a story :)

    I can't think of any blogs I read now that aren't related to either writing or blogging (oh wait, Hyperbole and a Half). But for me, blogs are like my newspapers. It's where I get all my publishing and writing news and info. It's what I'm interested in so that's what I read up on.

    What to blog about was something that I struggled with when everyone was saying "authors need blogs" back when I was still querying. I liked the idea of blogging, but what the heck did I have to offer? I never kept a diary or journaled, so talking about my day felt weird. My passions are all story related (books, movies, TV, games) but I didn't want to do reviews. Nothing in my books lent themselves to a blog. (and my market is not big blog readers)

    The only thing I had that I could A) talk about on a regular basis, B) was interested in enough to talk about C) had something to offer others might actually find worth reading about, was writing. So that's what I do.

    Every once in a while I do slip in a post about something else, but it's still story related in some way.

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  3. You definitely have a talent for wondering. And yes, I blog on whatever strikes my fancy. But then I'm no writer and I don't like wine. I could give you a good martini review :)
    Jules @ Trying To Get Over The Rainbow

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  4. I tend to pepper some of my posts with real life and not writing posts all the time. But I think most of us have to do that because how many times can we discuss writing. It's already been done to death.

    I loved your story on the Romanian man. I wish you could have talked to him, or interviewed him and asked him all the questions you posed here. That would have been so cool.

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  5. Connie - that's good to know!

    Janice - I confess that I only visit blogs by fellow writers. It's what I'm most interested in, and I love your blog, btw. So, I get what Kristen is saying, but I don't think it's an absolute for everyone.

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  6. Jules - A martini review would be great!

    Anne - I would've loved to have spoken with him. Unfortunately I didn't run into him again, and I doubt at his age, that he would've spoken English. And my Romanian, well, it's not :)

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  7. Wow, it would have been amazing to find out his story.

    This post definitely brings up an interesting thought. What are my other passions and do I blog about them? I certainly don't just blog about writing, though I try to focus on it. Hmmm....

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  8. My blog started on MySpace, when I was single and blogging about dating. I brought a lot of those readers over, so I've always blogged about a variety of topics. Life in general, really. Observations, etc. I do have a wide array of readers, but that doesn't mean I have MORE readers because of that. I think if you pick one niche and do it well, what you do is focus on finding other writers and reading their blogs and they'll read yours. There are PLENTY of writers out here blogging that you could build a huge readership out of just those. However, once we're published, our blog will change yet again, in time...so that it'll appeal to our "fans." (Since I write YA and middle grade, that's especially true of me. I don't think 12 year olds will want to read about my cooking experiences!)

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  9. What a beautiful reflection. We writers definitely see the world differently and that is such a gift. That you wondered so much about this man's life and history is fantastic.

    One of my greatest passions is helping other writers and authors so I guess in a way I do blog about that.

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  10. Great, great post Elle. You _always_ get me thinking and reflecting. Always. And what a story.

    My passions next to (and quite possibly before if I had to choose?) is reading reading talking about what I read, promoting and talking about the books and authors...love. every. second of it. You might have to back away from me after asking the perfectly innocent so what would you recommend reading, lol. I think my blog is slowly working it's way into that passion.

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  11. Deb - we love reader blogs! Great way to find out about books.

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  12. Elle, awesome entry! I love pictures of cool architecture!
    I kind of morphed into a reader/reviewer blog, but I would like to get into a more creative, expressive place...

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  13. I'm totally with Janice on this one (and no surprise, she has one of the best writing blogs out there-- because it's focused).

    I really don't think it's an issue for a writer to blog about writing. I mean... that's what you DO, professionally, so why can't you blog about it? I'm also of the mind that if you're going to blog about different topics on the *same* blog, they should be related somehow. For instance, if you blog about writing, and you're a SF author, it would be very appropriate to blog regularly about science-y stuff. IF that's something you feel passionate about enough to blog in conjunction with your writerly stuff.

    See. The thing is. As a fiction writer, we make stuff up in our stories. We're creators, not fact dumpers. It's not like a blog for a nonfiction writer or a social media mentor where you are deemed an expert in your particular field of what you write about. So I don't really see the point of telling fiction writers they can't blog about the ins and outs of fiction writing, storytelling, plotting, characterization, and the like, if that's their field of expertise and what they are passionate about.

    That's like asking a book blogger to blog something other than book reviews and what they're currently reading, etc. Kind of silly, in my opinion. If I suddenly started seeing a regular spot on the Story Siren about what new recipe she tried this week, simply because she's passionate about it, I'd think Kristy was off her nut.

    And her blog is not hurting at all for followers.

    Another perfect example is YA author Sarah Fine's blog, which focuses on breaking down the psychological aspects of characters. She has a background in psychology and she's a writer. It fits. And I wouldn't expect her to suddenly switch focus on something else-- even on just a once/week post. That would feel like a cheap gimmick to me, not to mention, I would very likely not read those posts.

    Going back to the food example, there ARE some author blogs out there that have successfully incorporated recipes and the like into their writing blogs, but that's because they write food-oriented fiction. So... yeah. It's relevant, not just some random thing they're blogging about because they happen to like it.

    Not saying every author out there should blog about writing (please God NO we have enough thank you), but I don't see the logic behind telling those of us who do that we're doing something wrong. Just my two cents.

    And I loved the story in your post, too. :) Which feels entirely appropriate to put on your blog because a quick glace at your bio tells me you write historical fiction. It's relevant and quite interesting. Thanks for sharing.

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  14. Lydia - Thanks for your thorough and well thought out response. I agree that there is room for all types of blogs with all kinds of focus. My observation as been that blogs of debuting authors who hit the NYT bestseller list often grow after the sale, not before it. I think maybe a strong blog following is useful for mid-listers but it's not going to be the difference between a blockbuster or not.

    PS: thanks for the follow!

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  15. I love the details about the old man's possible life. Fascinating stuff - I see a character in there somewhere.

    The topic about blogging is interesting to me because I'm new to writing, so I don't often feel like I have a lot of advice to give. (I'm still absorbing all the other advice out there.) I do struggle with topics sometimes and will often resort to a more personal life post when I'm just not getting a creative vibe for a writing post. Overall though, I try to tie everything into writing.

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